Seminars
Interactive workshops on skill and safety
Group classes in technique and theory, from the physics of impact to the psychology of subspace. Learn to build better scenes through structured, academic inquiry.
Examined desire.
Measured escalation.
Guided catharsis.
Applied intensity.
I teach the craft of kink through seminars, facilitation, and writing: fiction and theory that take desire apart to see what makes it work. I also orchestrate scenes for select couples and femmes in a private Manhattan space, where you are studied before being undone.
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“I used to think one-off encounters could fulfill my desires, but I was just burning energy managing the chaos. Here, I didn’t have to ‘manage’ anything. I could finally let go, and for the first time, the intensity actually felt restorative.”
“I started out hesitant. He never rushed me past it, not once in all these sessions. At some point I realized I’d stopped tensing when he gives a command, and that felt like the point.”
“... he let me hang at the edge of something I couldn’t name, quietly amused, like my balance had ever been mine to keep.”
“... never raises his voice. Doesn’t need to, he knows exactly where to press and, worse, exactly when to stop.”
Transformative experiences, and a deeper, chemical connection.
Understand your desires, and your partner’s; speak them well, and the higher registers open.
Seminars
Twice Wanted
The Many Flavors of Partner Sharing · Thursday, November 19, 2026
Sharing is never just one thing. A gift, a display, a surrender, a rivalry, a night you watch or a night you join in: the same act becomes a very different scene depending on whose desire is driving it.
You will explore the full range of partner sharing scenarios and dynamics, from hotwifing and stag-and-vixen to cuckolding and swinging, and learn to read each one for whose scene it really is, where the power actually sits, what the third is there for, and how to negotiate it, play it, and come home from it well.
Mindfucking Mindfully
Fear, Ecstasy and Everything Between · Thursday, December 10, 2026
The scene your partner remembers is the one that happened in their head. Mindfucking Mindfully takes apart psychological play: fear and anticipation, misdirection and suggestion, and the trance states that open when the mind is handled as deliberately as the body. We cover the framing that keeps a mind game consensual, when to press and when to release, and how to bring someone back down with their trust larger than when they arrived.
Tickets open soon, and my mailing list hears first.
Other Events
Intimate Futures
A Schwelle Conference · November 13 & 14, 2026 · Vienna & online worldwide
I am partnered with Schwelle for Intimate Futures, a two-day international conference on polyamory and mental and sexual health across relationship journeys. Practitioners and researchers from around the world take on closeness, communication, responsibility, and self-reflection in every relationship form, live in Vienna and streamed worldwide, with the conversation open to everyone from the newly curious to the professionals who hold this work.
Practices
Every practice below begins in the same place: understanding your own desires and your partner’s, and learning to communicate them well. Say what you want accurately, and the higher registers open on their own: intimacy, ecstasy, a connection that holds.
Not sure where to begin? Take the archetype quiz, a BDSM test that maps what you want before you have the words for it, or open the intro checklist and let a few minutes of candor do the talking.
Theory
Deconstructing the architecture of taboo desire
Deep-dives into the archetypes, sociology, and physiology that underpin our erotic wiring, for those who wish to understand where their impulses come from, examined with a critical, analytical eye.
Coaching
Mentorship for navigating power dynamics
Whether exploring your submission or honing your dominance, we break down the mechanics of play: negotiation, risk-aware safety, and the psychology of control. Gain the confidence to navigate your dynamic with precision.
Private sessions
Bespoke encounters designed for deep release
We step into a container built entirely around your specific psychological and physical needs, with the safety and calibration to relinquish control completely. Your limits are honored as the edge of your expansion.
Facilitation
Guided exploration for partners and pairs
I direct the play for couples who wish to explore intensity without yet holding the technical expertise to do so safely. I hold the container and manage the risks, so you and your partner can focus entirely on the connection.
Erotica
Custom narratives tailored to your psyche
A textual exploration of your fantasies, written with the same psychological precision as a physical session: bespoke stories for scenarios that may be impossible or unsafe to enact in reality.
Qualifications and References
- Education Coordinator at The House
- Co-facilitator and collaborator with Goddess Viktoria Sway
- Scene facilitation in collaboration with TF
- First Aid Certified (Emergency Care and Response)
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